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I’m bleeding. And having stabbing pains. The doctor can’t see me till next Monday.



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  1. Shannon #
    May 15, 2012

    I’m praying for you. That’s ridiculous they won’t see you–you should be seen asap!

  2. May 15, 2012

    Oh, Belle….I’m so sorry. I’ll be holding you in my thoughts today.


  3. SarahL #
    May 15, 2012

    Belle, I’m so sorry. You are in my thoughts. And I agree with Shannon – they need to see you asap. You probably have no desire to do this, but I’d call back and make a stink until they bring you in.

  4. May 15, 2012

    Oh my god, I can’t breath. I am so Belle. Why in the world can’t they see you till next Monday?!? This is ridiculous! I’m praying hard for you. My friend bled around 6 weeks and her daughter is about to turn 1. I’m hoping your story has the same ending.

  5. May 15, 2012

    Are you fucking kidding me?! They won’t see you until Monday? It’s Tuesday is it not??? That’s almost a week! Wtf? I’m in shock, I don’t even know what advice to give you other than I highly recommend a new Dr.!

    Normally I recommend NOT going to the ER when bleeding during pregnancy because they were so brutal but if your Dr. won’t see you, FUCK IT, go to the damn ER. It’s true that they can’t do anything if you’re miscarrying but they can’t just let you go a week without KNOWING, that’s brutal!

    I’m so sorry Belle.

  6. mish #
    May 15, 2012

    Belle, that sucks! Please go to the stupid ER if you have to, it’s total nonsense that you’re bleeding and your dr. is like, “uh wait till next week.” Ridiculous. Go to the ER!

  7. May 15, 2012

    Belle, I’m so sorry! I will be thinking about you!

  8. May 15, 2012

    Go to the Urgent Care. Making you wait that long is INSANITY

  9. EmHart #
    May 15, 2012

    Why can’t they see you? That is appalling. Can you go to another doctor or to ER? I am so sorry, I am thinking of you and sending so much love.

  10. katie #
    May 15, 2012

    No no no no

  11. May 15, 2012

    My heart has totally stopped for you, Belle. Are you alone? Can someone come over? There must be someone who can see you before Monday. Have you tried your regular gyn? I am so very sorry that you are on this roller coaster.

    I hope that this is just a little hematoma bursting and the pain is just your uterus stretching. I hope, I hope, I hope. But I also know that doesn’t make you feel any better. And it won’t change whatever is happening. I wish I could be there to hold your hand. 😦

  12. Anna #
    May 15, 2012

    Oh belle I’m so sorry. I can’t believe they won’t see you for a week. Big gentle loving hugs x

  13. May 15, 2012

    NO! No, no, fucking no!! Jeanette is right. Go to Urgent Care. NOW! In the meantime, I’m praying. Praying with my whole being.

  14. May 15, 2012

    Can one of the doctor’s colleagues see you?! That is RIDICULOUS. I am with pp who said go to urgent care. My heart is just sinking for you.

  15. May 15, 2012

    Monday is bullshit! I agree–go to either Urgent Care or insist on being seen. I’m praying for you.

  16. meggola #
    May 15, 2012

    Oh, I’m so sorry. I know how scary it is. I hope it’s just some scary but harmless early pregnancy bleeding. If the pain is bad, I’d go to the ER or Urgent Care. They should take you back right away to examine you. You shouldn’t have to wait until Monday!

  17. May 15, 2012

    Oh Belle, I’m sorry. I know that feeling all too well.

  18. SouthernGal #
    May 15, 2012

    Belle, I am a lurker but a friendly one, and I wanted to let you know that I am praying for you madly right now. I am an Alabama girl by birth and have dear, dear friends there, so I hear you loud and clear on the comfort old friends can provide. I’m also as old as your parents (probably) – and I know it’s not much comfort but I had bleeding at about six weeks with my son (who is now in his 30s and 6’4″ tall) – we didn’t have ultrasounds or that stuff way back then but I well remember the fear I felt. I am praying and hoping for the best for you. If it helps to know that total strangers care, please know you are surrounded by loving thoughts.

  19. May 15, 2012

    Oh no! I’m so sorry Belle, and I so agree with the rest – you shouldn’t have to wait that long. That’s just ridiculous and cruel. Thinking of you.

  20. jak #
    May 15, 2012

    call them and tell them you are going to just show up and bleed all over their waiting room chairs until they see you!!! almost a whole week?! that’s fucking crazy!!

  21. May 15, 2012

    Obviously it is your decision what to do next but I did want to let you know that when I was going through this I wish I hadn’t gone to the ER. I know I’m in the minority with this thought but here is why…they did nothing for me. They couldn’t even tell me for sure if I was miscarrying. They just said we’d have to wait and see. I spent 6 hours in the ER for that statement. I did not help in the least. And now I have ER bills to pay.

    I do however think you need to get back on the phone and demand to be seen by your doctor this week. It seems outrageous to me that they would not see you till Monday when you are bleeding and in pain. I am still holding out hope for you and I do think you need to be seen, I just don’t want you to go through what I went through.

    Lots of love, XOXO

    • May 15, 2012

      I agree with you under most circumstances Trish as I had a horrible experience at the ER as well and they didn’t do anything for me either and I always recommend women wait for a Dr. appointment over going to the ER. BUT if her Dr. won’t see her I think it’s better than waiting…that’s just torture.

  22. veetamia #
    May 15, 2012

    Belle, I am SO sorry you are going through this. Holding on hope that it is just a fucking scare, and everything will be ok. I hope someone is there to be with you! Tons of us are praying for you from afar. Hang in there. And I agree with everyone else, you should be seen by a dr! Don’t take no for an answer. You are your biggest advocate and this is your baby. Hugs and love.

  23. May 15, 2012

    No 😦 I hope you can get in to see your doctor. Its ridiculous that they can’t see you today.

  24. pegara #
    May 15, 2012

    Aww Belle I’m so sorry! Thats crap that they can’t see you til Monday. Go to the ER. Hugs I’m thinking of you!

  25. May 15, 2012

    One of my good friends who did an FET had severe cramping & bleeding at 5 weeks- she went to the ER to discover there were twins in there, healthy as could be. They have no idea what caused the bleeding but it did stop, and she is now 13 weeks along with 2 healthy kiddos. I am so so sorry you are having to go through this- and would definitely say to go to the ER or another clinic so you can determine exactly what is going on. Sending virtual hugs!

  26. May 15, 2012

    Thinking of you. I’m with everyone else, I can’t believe you can’t get in until Monday. I hope you are able to get in sooner.

  27. May 15, 2012

    I agree- avoid ER. But if you get no where with your dr office, fire them, and then go to urgent care. And I hope your parents turned around or there is someone that can go with you. I’m with Sass… You don’t need to be alone right now. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  28. May 15, 2012

    I’m so sorry. Sending love and strength and love. Abiding with you.

  29. May 15, 2012

    Thinking good thoughts for you right now. Call and bitch out the doctor. He should definitely see you today or tomorrow!!!

  30. May 15, 2012

    No no no no no no no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go see someone, you need to know what’s going on. I’m so sorry, my heart is aching for you right now. Please update us ASAP, I’m thinking about you and hoping there is a miracle here somewhere.

  31. May 15, 2012

    Sending you super good energy and lots of prayers. Monday is forever away – follow your gut and go to ER if you feel it’s needed.

  32. May 15, 2012

    I am so, so sorry. And I echo everyone above: I hope you can get in to see someone much sooner. xoxo

  33. May 15, 2012

    Oh my god…i am so very sorry. Thinking of you.

  34. Pcosbarrenness #
    May 15, 2012

    😦 so sad, but hopefully it turns out ok. Definitely agree that you should go to urgent care though.

  35. May 15, 2012

    I am so sorry, Belle. Thinking of you and sending you hugs. If you haven’t already, see if someone somewhere can see you today. You shouldn’t have to wait until Monday!

  36. May 16, 2012

    Oh, Belle, this is just awful. Know that you are in many thoughts and that you have lots of love coming your way.

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